Fear is a Liar

Updated: Feb 14

On Sunday I shared about my own journey in an ongoing battle to overcome fear. What follows is a recap about what I shared, and what I hope are some encouraging words about different fears that tend to hold us all captive, and some brief bible verses I turn to when I’m looking to overcome each of them. I pray that these reminders bring you comfort and courage.

Some of the fears I deal with are that God overestimates me. The responsibilities, authority, trials, mourning, addiction, life-threatening accidents and illnesses – I’ve feared that God thought in vein that he was teaching me how to persevere; toughening me up; teaching me to bounce back stronger. I feared God thought he could prune a branch in me that wasn’t bearing fruit, like in John 15:2; Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit.

In this illustration, I feared that His attempt at doing so had gone awry, that his hand “slipped” and maybe He pruned the wrong one. He crippled me - maimed me for life - tried to humble me in a way that would build my faith, but instead wound up ruining me.

As it so often does, God’s Word challenged me:

Matthew 18:8-9

If your hand or your foot causes you to stumble, cut it off and throw it from you; it is better for you to enter life crippled or lame, than to have two hands or two feet and be cast into the eternal fire. And if your eye causes you to stumble, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fire of hell.

And I thought, yeah but... me!? Breaking me down further and further to reshape me into an even humbler follower of Christ? But I prefer being strong and proud and doing it my way and on my own! Without what makes me proud to be me, who am I? What’s the point?

Thankfully, God’s Word never fails:

James 1:2-4, 12

Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness… Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.

2 Corinthians 12:9-10

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

What a convicting group of verses for me!

What about you? What fears are keeping you from casting your anxiety on the Lord and letting him sustain you?

Fear God is not listening? Fear that, if he won’t take this cup from you, there can be no peace? Is it hard to imagine finding peace and understanding in light of current circumstances?

Philippians 4:6-7 ESV

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

  • I notice that it doesn’t say, “And the peace of God, which comes from improved circumstances…” Instead scripture says He will give you peace beyond your understanding and guard your heart and mind, which I take to mean regardless of current circumstances.

Fear about a lack of basic necessities? What if the rug gets pulled out from under your carefully laid out house of cards?

Luke 12:22-26 ESV

And he said to his disciples, “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat, nor about your body, what you will put on. For life is more than food, and the body more than clothing. Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn, and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds! And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? If then you are not able to do as small a thing as that, why are you anxious about the rest?

Fear of being accountable for your actions? Fear of consequences, discipline? Fear of holding others accountable or disciplining them?

Hebrews 12:11

For the moment, all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

Proverbs 13:24

Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.